Navigating the "Rules" of Romance Writing: Conventions, Expectations, and Breaking Boundaries
So, you want to write a romance novel, but you're wondering if there are any hard and fast rules to follow. In the world of romance, what some may refer to as "rules" are more accurately described as reader expectations and preferences. Let's explore the vast array of perspectives on romance novel conventions, and how they can guide or inspire your writing journey.
1. Embracing the Spectrum of Reader Expectations:
Romance readers have diverse preferences when it comes to storytelling. Some expect the hero and heroine to meet early on, while others prioritize the development of their relationship. Various elements such as secondary characters, suspense, subgenres, tropes, and themes may delight some readers but turn off others. Understanding this spectrum allows you to tailor your story to your intended audience.
2. The Non-Negotiable Rule: A Happy Ending:
The one unbreakable rule of romance is that it must have a happy ending. However, the definition of a happy ending can vary. Some readers require a clear resolution with the couple happily together, while others appreciate more open-ended conclusions as long as the couple's future together is implied. These are known as Happily Ever After (HEA) or Happy For Now (HFN).
3. Exploring the Gray Area: HEA or HFN:
Some discussions arise around whether a "hopeful" ending is sufficient for romance readers. In such endings, the couple may not be physically together, but there is an implication of future reunion or growth. While it may work for some readers, keep in mind that many dyed-in-the-wool romance enthusiasts prefer the assurance of a definitive happily ever after. Commonly, HFN is accepted for books within a series while the HEA comes in the final book.
4. Balancing Tradition and Innovation:
While many authors successfully adhere to traditional romance structures, there's room for pushing boundaries. By skillfully balancing the familiar and the new, you can create fresh and captivating stories. Often this is called writing to market. After identifying the reader's expectations in the subgenre and tropes that you want to write, you can add innovation by adding in about 10% new ideas or twists to the usual expectation.
5. Breaking the Rules: A Path Less Traveled:
For those who dare to break the rules, proceed with caution, purpose, and content warnings:
- Know the rules thoroughly to understand the conventions you're challenging.
- Define your intentions for breaking the rules and what you hope to achieve.
- Avoid breaking all the rules simultaneously; choose a focused approach.
- When you do break the rules, do it exceptionally well, ensuring your storytelling is compelling and resonant.
- Don't forget content warnings to help steer readers toward or away from your book to help optimize reader experience.
6. Finding Your Path: Balancing Expectations and Goals:
Consider where you want to position yourself on the romance writing spectrum. Reflect on your aspirations, desired writing career, and willingness to take risks. A large part of your reflection should be how you want to approach your path. Is this a hobby or a business? Either path or anything in between is valid, but will change how you approach your writing process. Evaluate your work and make decisions that align with your goals, acknowledging the sacrifices required to achieve them.
Writing romance novels offers a variety of conventions, expectations, and innovative opportunities. Understand reader preferences, the rule of a happy ending, essential romance elements, and balancing tradition with innovation to find your place. Embrace the journey, define your path, and fearlessly pursue your goals in this ever-evolving genre.